We do not have many rules at Erotic Garden but here are the ones we do have
The term lifestyle can denote the interests, opinions, behaviors, and behavioral orientations of an individual, group, or culture. Swingers can be couples (married or not) or singles.
Swingers seem to have a sexually free spirits. Couples tend to be in love with each other, and only "share" each other sexually with others. Sometimes this means "swapping wives" sometimes it means "group sex". Not all of us are ment to live a life of sexual repression that is offered up by today's standards... It is not cheating if you are sharing.
Many come to the party and do not play, they tend to use the party to enhance their sex lives with each other. Parties are very sexy and it is hard not to want to play around so watch out when you get home.
Many think that this is a Guy thing but the reality is that the women are the ones that make all this happen. Women Rule and men drool is the saying at parties. While some men may be BI most are not willing to go there or to admit it. While women are welcome to be Bi and it may make them more attractive to many couples and many women come to find and play with other Bi-women.
There is no "rule" that makes you a swinger. It is more of a realization in your mind that you want more from life and are willing to find it and share it with the person you love.